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Safe Social Networking

Image: Young girl on a computerIn the Winter 07 edition of The LINC magazine, we ran a feature called ‘The Facecrook’ Experiment; highlighting just how easy it is for fraudsters and other folk with less-than-honest intentions to get hold of your personal information through social-networking site Facebook.

Nobody is saying that Facebook and similar sites such as Myspace and Bebo aren’t undoubtedly a great way to chat and exchange pictures and videos with your mates, check out new music or simply kill a bit of boredom, and whilst these sites attract an international audience of millions, they aren’t without their dangers.

In our ‘Facecrook Experiment’ we found a number of young people in Wigan Borough who were more than willing to give a complete stranger enough personal information to set up credit cards and bank overdrafts in their name.

And whilst we know that, even if you did dish out your details to all and sundry, not all of you would be able to apply for a credit card should a fraudster try to, simply mentioning where you go to school/college or where you work at the weekend, whether mentioning it directly or posting pictures of you in your uniform or outside the building can leave you at great risk of being tracked down by sexual predators.

We really don’t mean to put the frighteners on you, but these sort of things do happen, like the case back in Earlier this year, sexual predator Ian Hunter posed as a 26-year-old woman on MySpace and after adding Ellie Budd (15), Olivia Lewis (16) and Natasha Gavin (15) as friends and monitoring their profiles, he managed to find out enough information to corner the girls on a school trip to London’s Tate Modern Gallery.

So, what to do?

Perhaps surf the net for tips on how to stay safe online. Yet when we fired up Google and searched for ‘Young people staying safe online’, most of the websites and articles were aimed at parents, advising them on how to protect their children by monitoring their ‘net access, installing filtering software and such like.

Yet surely if we’re old enough to use the internet, we’re old enough to be trusted how to use it safely and sensibly?

Your best bet is perhaps to make sure you’re already as safe as can be on Myspace, or Facebook, or whichever site you use without anyone else having to do it for you. That way, not are you proving to your parents that you’re sensible enough to act responsible in the vast wilderness that is Cyberspace, but you’re protecting yourself from fraud, ID theft, predators and all kinds of stuff that could put you in serious danger if you don’t play it safe.

Here then, are our top tips for safe social-networking.

• Don’t give in to peer pressure.
This is true in all forms of life, but when you’re online, just because your mates are posting their birthdays, phone numbers and revealing pictures of themselves, doesn’t mean you have to do it too.
• Don’t post too much personal information.
This is fairly obvious, but if you post your mobile number, your address, your full name, an e-mail address or similar information then people can use it for all kinds of things that you probably wouldn’t want them to.
• Pick a user name that doesn’t include any personal information.
For example, ‘chris_wigan84’ reveals lots about you, whereas ‘girlsaloudfan’ or ‘smellyboy’ doesn’t.
• Use a separate e-mail address.
That way, you can just use that account for social-networking and keep your regular e-mail address a secret except amongst your close friends. You can get as many free e-mail addresses as you like from sites like Yahoo! Or Hotmail, but remember not to use an address that gives too much personal information away.
• Don’t publish pictures you wouldn’t want your Gran to see.
This is another fairly obvious one, but you’d be surprised how many young people post pictures of themselves on Myspace in not-so-innocent situations. As a general rule, don’t publish anything you wouldn’t want your Gran to look at over the dinner table. You never know who’s looking at your profile!
• Use the site’s privacy settings.
Sites such as Facebook have privacy settings allowing you to hide your details altogether, or only show them to those on your friends list.
• Make friends you can trust
Ideally, only add people to your social-networking profiles who you already know in ‘real-life’. However, most of us like to meet new people and make new friends. If this sounds like you, then at least make sure that the person who asks you to add them as a friend at least sounds genuine. If they turn out to be less genuine than you first thought, block them immediately and take steps to ensure they can’t contact you in anyway.
It was surprising how many people accepted our friend requests from our fake Facebook profile when all we’d included was a picture of a band and two favorite TV shows.
• Never arrange to meet up with someone if they refuse to send you a picture and chat to you on the phone.
This one’s pretty self-explanatory.
• If you do meet up, let someone know, and ideally, take a friend.
Not everyone you’ll meet online will be up to no good. There are lots of genuine people out in Cyberspace, and chances you might make a really good friend, or even find that special someone whilst you’re logged on. Inevitably, if you’re 100% sure you can trust them, you’ll want to meet them. If you do, make sure someone, preferably your parents, knows where you’ll be. If you can, take a mate along with you, keep your mobile on at all times and be home when you say you’ll be home.

This might sound like a long list of do’s and don’ts, but trust us on this one, if you follow these few simple steps, you’ll have a much more enjoyable time online.

Recommended Link:
www.getsafeonline.org

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